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LiesLilithsaidtouranus | I do not want to be that clingy girl who likes guys too easily. I don't want to be seen as simple, when I know I am not. I don't want to be seen as weak when I know Incan fend for myself. I don't want to be left behind or forgotten. I would attribute this to my sun 10th house. The way I see it, anyone who has their sun here will always be criticized for everything they do. Our life would be handed on a silver player to everyone no matter how hard we try to hide because everyone says we have to be in the conversation at least once. I hated being the person people assume things about, when in fact they don't take time to get to know me the way I would. |
Kerosene | Someone who depends on others Sag dsc. |
12muddy | I don't want to be a complicated person. It's not like I can control my nature, so I try to "appear" simple instead. But other people notice it anyway and it bothers me sometimes. If I had a dime for every time I gloss things over by laughing and trying to keep things superficial, I'd be a millionaire. Sun and mercury in the 12th - I like to keep my true nature and my thoughts hidden. |
StarlightSmileSupreme | What I want to be is that mad genius that wins the Noble Prize and I blame my Libra stellium with Mercury conjunct the ascendant. So, I wouldn't want to be seen as the opposite of this, boring, mundane, common in my thinking. |
anonymidarkness | I don't want to be the person who tries to please everyone. North Node in 1st house |
anonymidarkness | quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: What I want to be is that mad genius that wins the Noble Prize and I blame my Libra stellium with Mercury conjunct the ascendant.
I want to be famous, it's very weird, I am a very private person but I want to be famous. I blame my Leo MC. |
StarlightSmileSupreme | quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: I want to be famous, it's very weird, I am a very private person but I want to be famous. I blame my Leo MC.
You could be one day with a Leo MC! |
Chiemi | When I was little I liked to dream of my future self as a business woman who was really strong yet feminine if that makes sense lol. I want to just be confident and self assured and someone who knows how to live and enjoy life - and also be responsible. I want to be someone who can be looked up to, and I want to be known as someone who's caring and who people know they can come to. I want to be able to grow old knowing I set a good example for future generations (if I or my sisters have any kids lol). Leo moon in 1st/Cancer asc Sun/mercury/venus/chiron/NN in 4th Mars/Pluto/Jupiter in 5th Saturn trine asc/Conjunct MC/Opposite sun
Edit: Ops, just realized title said who you DON'T want to be lol Well in that case I don't want to be like my grandma on my moms side. She's selfish and delusional and she never helps anyone unless she gets something in return and she literally thrives on other peoples misery . I don't want to be cold hearted, especially when it comes to my family. |
Zander916 | quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: I want to just be confident and self assured and someone who knows how to live and enjoy life - and also be responsible. I want to be someone who can be looked up to, and I want to be known as someone who's caring and who people know they can come to. I want to be able to grow old knowing I set a good example for future generations
Pretty much the same for me really! You probably put it better than me. Some of my biggest fears are to actually bring people down (which maybe I do and I hate it) and to be forgotten. I know this is a what you DON'T want to be thread but it's much easier for me to say what I want. Put simply, I want to make a good impact on the lives of those around me. I don't need to be all things to all people, but maybe I'm good at making someone laugh, another as a confidant, someone else who can tell me about all their problems, provide a shoulder to cry on. I want to bring warmth to everyone and for them to be improved in some way for having me be a part of their life. I don't want to be hated, (which I am by a few), jealous, worried, stressed, bored or more importantly I don't want to be boring. Hmmmm.... I'll leave it there. I think you all get the idea. Honestly, I think I attribute nearly all of this to my LEO SUN. It's in my soul, but others I'm sure play a role. I'm REALLY not good with aspects. But maybe Sun Sextile Moon may contribute to this - connecting my soul to my feelings and Mercury is in Virgo so maybe to my mind as well. Libra Asc Leo Sun Gemini Moon |
Odette | quote: What type of person do you not want to be and what aspects attribute to this?
- Someone who lacks inner strength and is false in some way. (Aries Sun) - Someone who is a control freak. (Aries Sun) - Someone who is blatantly nasty towards myself or others. (Pisces influence) - Someone who can't make me laugh. (Mercury conj Jupiter) - Someone I can't have long conversations with. I need to have a mental connection. I'm mentally hyped. (Mercury square Uranus) - Someone who is sexist... because it is unrealistic.. and I generally have a problem with unrealistic people who have unrealistic views about the world. (Capricorn influence) - Someone who cannot be a good friend as well as a lover. Not interested in sex or love in the absence of friendship. (Sun & Venus in the 11th) |
Odette | LoL!! Sorry I mis-read that.. I thought you were asking 'what sort of person would you not want to be *with*'... as in the traits we would not want in a partner..
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Leocassandra | quote: Originally posted by LiesLilithsaidtouranus: I do not want to be that clingy girl who likes guys too easily. I don't want to be seen as simple, when I know I am not. I don't want to be seen as weak when I know Incan fend for myself. I don't want to be left behind or forgotten.I would attribute this to my sun 10th house.
Ohh my... i feel the same! I have my Sun in 10th house too
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earthypisces | I don't think I could ever be a conformist or a people pleaser, people like that drive me crazy. Maybe my Aquarius Mercury? ------------------ Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon/Venus Taurus Ascendant Aquarius Mercury Leo Mars |
beckylee | I don't want to be a boring and shallow person. And never rude. I blame my saggittarius mercury and cancer rising. |
Zander916 | quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: I don't think I could ever be a conformist or a people pleaser, people like that drive me crazy. Maybe my Aquarius Mercury?
I'm neutral but not sure what would bring that. I think what I think, if it conforms or not is irrelevant to me. Probably not on topic though, sorry. |
Sven555 | quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: I want to be famous, it's very weird, I am a very private person but I want to be famous. I blame my Leo MC.
I second this!
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Ami Anne | A fake My mother was fake. I do find this in Aquas. They brag about how "enlightened" they are but they are very low on true compassion and love. They can talk all day about how "enlightened" they are but when it comes to actions, they have little genuine compassion. The phrase, " I love humanity. It's people I can't stand" was made for these lower Aquas. There are some who are the real deal. However, I was revolted at what a fake my mother was, so I try to be genuine. I have Saturn conj the asteroid Echo which is an obsession with finding one's true voice and expressing it. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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I'm so cappy | I don't want to date for the sake of dating - Saturn in the 5th house, Venus conjunct Saturn. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. |
LiesLilithsaidtouranus | quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: A fake My mother was fake. I do find this in Aquas. They brag about how "enlightened" they are but they are very low on true compassion and love. They can talk all day about how "enlightened" they are but when it comes to actions, they have little genuine compassion. The phrase, " I love humanity. It's people I can't stand" was made for these lower Aquas. There are some who are the real deal. However, I was revolted at what a fake my mother was, so I try to be genuine. I have Saturn conj the asteroid Echo which is an obsession with finding one's true voice and expressing it.
I never rolled with the whole humanitarian and hippies old astrologers call to Aquarius as being. I am more misanthropic than the average person, but I have to live with my own humanity. A lot of Aquarius' are fake, you are right about that. I was wondering if we could talk about that on facebook Ami, if you don't mind me adding you. I actually don't ever want to be a bad mom, at all, the idea freaks me out. I know I am too young to be thinking about kids, but I just have this fear in me that I'll be a bad mom and that my kids will hate me. Worst of all, I fear I might not even have kids. Man, wish I didn't worry so much about this.
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Ami Anne | Sure. Add me! That would be great! xx ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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